Thanksgiving. Many will spend the day pondering the blessings God has bestowed on their lives. I’m no different. As I reflect on God’s abundance and faithfulness I marvel at one particular friendship that has been slowly cultivated through many trying moments. This friendship has influenced my world view in ways few get to experience; I’ve met many who live in the shadow of poverty, despair, and hopelessness. These experiences have taught me that generosity has more to do with receiving grace than what one has to offer. Like the rich blessings of family, health, etc. (none of which should be overlooked or trivialized) this one friendship provides me with crystal clarity that God’s provision is perfect. I’m truly blessed!
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Sitting in Panera (one of several places that serve as a part-time office). As usual great Hazelnut coffee and pastries. I needed to catch up on a lot of writing so decided I’d escape from “appointments” and have a “me day”.
The past weeks have been filled with those little moments where others have said or done some little tid bit that has caught my attention. I spend nearly two-thirds of my time listening to the visions of others; each vision is unique and each person has little obstacles that keep him/her from realizing their vision. Most of the obstacles are perceived and not real. The only true solution is to help each direct their sights to God’s vision not to some strategy or problem solving scheme.
One special moment was a phone call from a friend who has made some very tough choices in order to be available so He could hear God and let God unfold what was to take place next in his life. His willingness to let God be God and step aside from his own desires has spoken volumes to me about how deep his love is for God. He still hasn’t realized his vision, but God has opened the door to an opportunity that fits so well into his understanding of God’s plan that you know his faithful, patient reliance on God has been rewarded. It’s truly a “God thing”.
My wife knows my friend well. After I shared the gist of his phone call with her she quietly asked “how’s that going in your own life?” Bam! Nothing left to add. Nothing left to say. God has truly blessed me with an adventure, wonderful friends who only care about what Jesus has in store for them, and a super wife!